Good afternoon I'm up to my ears in paperwork today lol,helping hubby with his child support petition so they can lower it and yes I have a stepson he is adorable he is 18 now his birthday just passed.When he was 2 and 3 years old he was so attached to me by my leg literally,he called me mom and it was cute  but I had to correct it.His mom and his aunt were wanting to fight at every pick up and drop off even when the pickup spot was at the 25th precinct.They acted like little girls and at 1 point I was gonna beat his aunts butt but hubby got in the middle.They stop showing up at the pickup spot when we had custody of him for a little while because he was getting abused to the point that he had nail marks embedded in his head.We lost contact she moved and for 15 years my hubby paid child support and never got upset because it was for his son,but we suffered a lot he would work 40 hrs at $14 an hour and only bring $200 net.We moved a lot.We did not qualify for food stamps or help.I will save the sad story for now but 15 years later we found him we are so happy and so is he,we thought she put bad thoughts in his head but he loves us and we love him.The only problem, while he is paying $192 biweekly my stepson gets disability of $721 a month and she still does  not have a job she is raking in that money plus she gets foodstamps and medicaid wow CAN WE GET SOME OF THAT. My stepson is smart but she is trying to keep him dumb for the disability WOW....